I am simply not attracted to the guys my age. I suppose I'll find out soon enough. Are you ready to take responsibility for the child as well? My question is: How young is too young for a man in a new relationship? Legally and technically speaking you most certainly can date a 23 year old. I don't have a problem with the relationship at all. We hurt, and we are not as strong as ppl perceive us to be when it comes to relationships.
It's not the age, its the mental. But I ain't even gon lie, I might be young but I been through it all; I told her that. I can understand if she has teenage kids she needs to discuss it with, or her pastor, and that's it. We parted friends and still give each other a wink when we pass in the grocery store. So I prefer younger for that reason.
I don't need any scientific studies, all you have to do is visit a convalescent home or senior center. How can she let her family down? But anyway ms imsospecial36; I like your attitude. Good Luck,, I think its sweet! But think about it: Would you like to be with a woman who is 90? Especially if we have been hurt over and over by useless men. Soon as I got to know her, I knew she was the one for me. On the real, I hope she realize that. I have met a sweet and devoted young lady, and we share many values and interests together. As for what other people think, don't worry about it.
Quote: Originally posted by alphamale don't let how other people feel dictate your life and how u live it. Why do you care what people will say? Beings that we were always on with our clan mates we were in 2 different clans but both always played together the opportunity never arose for me to make anything of it besides general flirting. Which means could she ever have the courage to introduce you to her loved ones? I have so many friends that foster loving romantic relationships with an age gap much wider than yours. The first sign of a rush, she will think that you are out for sex, money, etc even when you are not even thinking like that. Younger guys what would you say if one of your boys dated a 37 year old? But I could see it in her eyes she wants more than just to be friends. But the 21 yr old should take her own advice he is 14 years her senior! She lives in Nevada and I live in Iowa- thats a big problem. Age limits are man imposed ideas and where there's a will, there's a way.
I already had one friend tell me I can't date him, because I'm gonna break a kid's heart. But I think you should just take it slow. Give it time, have fun, and don't expect to much too fast. Sounds like you have the right idea. I cannot give him children, I am over raising mine! Im leaning towards talking to her as much as possible and visiting her as much as possible, then seeing where it goes. Is 15 years too broad an age gap to date someone? Age ain't nutin but ah number when it comes to love.
Just dating, friendship and some fun. Not how she acts but what she wants out of life. Lesson learned and believe me I won't repeat that mistake again. They are our family and friends. Im very tired of all the girls my age that I date- theyre idiots! Most of the time I don't even notice the age difference. Now, here's the complications: she has a two year old son, not a problem since I love kids anyway. Ive always told her shes beautiful.
What do you guys think in general of the situation? Now I know I dont know her real well but my instinct tells me she is very sweet. He looks older and I look younger so we could both lie to the outside world about our ages and get away with it. Do you see her as your full-time , should you ever need her to be? Is it pointless since neither of us are likely to ever move? Just confess your undying love and follow your heart. Because of that number we get ill, ugly, and eventually die. Just don't get too attached since there's probably more problems with a large age gap relationship than with the average relationship. Think of it this way, what do you offer a woman who is that much younger than you? So she knows I'm serious about this.
Not Everything, but we have been thru some things. Go ahear and flirt, just leave it there. Go with what she suggests, be friends and you may find that she changes her mind and tells her friends and family when she is sure you really care about her. Related: Oh, I know that sounds crass, and maybe there is love in there too. I am 12 years younger than her.
As a Grown woamn in her 30's we love adventure, excitement,etc, but we also fear. And because I like to have fun. You might also really have some fun together, and hell, if it gets serious, women live longer than men anyway. She was nine years older than me, and fourteen years older is just not that much different. If she is embarrassed or ashamed then she is not comfortable in having a relationship. It sounds like you have given this a lot of consideration more than I would have expected from someone your age. We would always be on teamspeak and from the first time I talked to her Ive had a crush on her.