Now I am 45 and want to date gorgeous young men I missed out on in my youth! I was a strong Mensa candidate when I was 14. The oldest doesn't mind our age difference at all. Somedays I wake up and can't quite believe my luck. Girls want to grow up fast, and they feel all grown up with an older man who socializes with others his age. We have only been dating for 3 days, but have known eachother for 3 yrs. The most difficult thing of dating an older man is that if you ever separate and you are my age, you will not feel the same with guys your age.
I''m not sure the exact age difference between her and husband, but I think it was about 20 years. My parents married when they are in their 30s. This can manifest in many ways, I have friends where the guy is like twenty centimeters shorter than his wife and many laugh at them but they are really happy with kids, great couple and they do not care about it at all. Odds are more against it not working with too wide a gap. We both have the same income and at times I have had to pick up the bills when he could not work. He was 21 when we dated and I was 26. I usually go for someone a few years older.
Think about it when your forty, that person who you found attractive, sexy and virile in your twenties will be in their 60's to 80's if they were 20 to 40 yrs. Make sure this is a good man you can trust. My last boyfriend of 5 years was handsome and even a year younger than me. I have to chime in here because I could not honestly take some of the comments on here seriously. He treats me well and is able to understand me. I think that if there is a genuine attraction age should not matter, but I also think we need to be realistic.
I was warned by my mom about marrying an older man. I am starting to become frustrated, angry and resentful. I also gave my share of the house to my x so my kids would have a place to call home, My x remarried 3 years after the divorce to a man 10 years her age but was still working making a great wage at the same company where she worked. His wife and his children will always be his top priority. There are just some things you can live without and if you decide that one person is the one you can live without and he happens to be older than you, so be it. A few last parting thoughts from 40-soemting women. If you have an interest in this older person, having a boyfriend on the side is not being fair to either.
So people should overlook the mis spells and read what's behind it. Another thing, do you spend time with him and your friends? She got the bug and wanted to go out, he wanted to go home. The reasons in here have very little meaning to me except for the part about my father. To answer a few of the questions posted by all. If he is married and seeing you why hasn't he gotten a divorce yet? I am told I am beautiful and kind.
I really don''t think I questioned getting married once. For her, what is the meaning of love? Most of the time I forget our age difference even exists. Lisa and most attractive women, the age and older than me seemed to say they want to 20 years older than. She is almost 60, while he is in his mid-30s. And then three days later we saw the perfect house. But he was the first guy I chose not based on looks and other external factors and the chemistry was great. We have common interests, I have a young heart, she, an old soul, and we both feel we have found our soul mates.
We did discuss it and its potential impact on our relationship retirement, death, etc. There is nothing we won't do for each other. Personally I see the female question and fear to a younger female because of the monogamy model that forces men to abandon a woman to have another. For those, women in their twenties, as some other commenters pointed out. After seeing each other for a while we realised just how compatible we actually are and how well we balanced each other out.
That really really sucks for you guys, because you''re probably going to have to deal with it for the rest of your lives. I looked and acted alot older but the truth is that I was still a child. Her partner doesn't really fit in with her friends, because he is very childish. He told me he was divorce with 2 kids he was living alone the kids used to come once in the while. We were friends 1st but I don't know if he's ready for what I'm ready for. Anonymous Hi well I am not married or anything I just am beginning to date a guy 3 years younger than me I'm 17 and he's 14 so is this bad? He sounds perfectly fabulous for you. Older women will always hate May-December relationships because the older women thinks that she can no longer compete against a younger women.