Because the profile of my dad has given you. Really in the end it's all about how you present yourself to her family, and if you're able to show you've got the backbone to stand up for their daughter, love her, and not just trying to bone her, then fuck what everyone else thinks, do what makes you happy. And understands they are things she isn't going to understand at times due to her age then nothing's wrong with it. The thing is, the age gap does make a difference because he is at a different stage than I am, which means our views will differ. If I remember correctly I was 21 when I was involved with a 16 year old, it lasted for about 2 months. I always smile around him and he left to Idaho for 6 days and will be back on the 21st. You have to understand, you are feeling heat from your parents, and maybe even her friends - well imagine the heat she is getting.
Maturity is a word thrown around way too much in this situation, I could give a shit how 'mature' a girl is, as long as it's fun to be around her. Try to be interested in them, be honest with her but don't judge. If it is the latter, well everyone will just move in with their lives! When you want to date someone 20 years younger than you then people should get worried. I told them I believe that since he is at legal age for consent that I would have to be the one to press charges not anyone else, is that true also? I think she must like you if she is with you after all. Be smart in whatever choices you make. And I was in no rush, with time to wait on her to grow into what I knew she would be. I'm in a boat that is very similar to Peter's.
It's giving me a lot to consider though, and it really just helps to receive opinions. It was more of the way a girl could get beer and cigarettes. I hit the brakes, wondering what the fuck am I going to do? Besides, you gotta be around the same level as your partner to have a healthy relationship, are you really at the same maturity level as some sophomore in highschool? Will think they're in love with a woman in a 20 year marriage. It may be a hard question for her to answer, and that's fine. Go on the age diferent is seventeen years old before she is the eyes of the same age gap is at least 18. There are many many factors to take into consideration but in general I would tend to say no, but yes is probably better so she can find out stuff herself.
Ultimately, the decision is up to you, but I don't see how this is going to work out for you in the long run. Yes but the average 20 year old is still getting an allowance from mom and dad while the average 25 year old is working towards building their life independently. I don't think anything is wrong with it, a lot of your mid age couples have large age gaps my parents are 8 years apart and started dating when my mother was 16 and 30+ years later and both their kids are out of college and they are really well established themselves. You're most likely past the high school drama phase. Personally I don't think there's anything wrong with it, but there are things I think you should watch out for. As a side note, she has a brother who's, like, 22 and probably pretty protective of her. All the age of consent is illegal if it being too young single dating older.
Is this relationship worth it to you to work through all the hassles that age difference brings. First of all, if a law is broken anyone can file a criminal complaint, not just a parent. An age gap in my opinion is just one of them. But even then, she'll still be in high school. But don't drive head first into this, until you've established that, that is what you both want.
While this may hurt her, it will, hopefully, teach her a lesson about honesty. Started seeing a 16-year-old explain why she's not. Again, what I mean here are no sexual intentions, just being with her. Be educated on the state you reside in or the state in which you maybe be going to college, work, etc. I'm eighteen and dating a twenty five year old man, but I'm obviously of age.
In the end, they accepted it since they like her, though. There were also a couple of girls I liked and they liked me too but I didn't go after them because of their ages. So they already knew what kind of person I am. Don't prohibit or try to talk her out of it, let her find out what she needs to learn herself. I'm fearing it will change too much, and she'll eventually leave me like my ex did, when she experienced the outgoing life, she wanted to be free. Question Details: My son is 16 he is dating a 20 year old girl.
That's pretty clearly in not-weird territory. The hardest part about dating someone that is in a different point in their life You in College, her still in high school is that her parents are going to see you as a total scum bag, that probably only wants in her pants. If it's legal, and you're both going for something you both want, then I don't se the problem. You need to wake up and walk through the right path. That is how the law is currently being viewed.
So, i am currently in this year old is it hadn't happened sooner. Besides wanting to date someone 3-4 years younger than you is actually the Average date range. So I'm really into a sophomore in high school who's 16, turning 17 this October. But I assure you, not every guy my age is lusting after sex. My husband is only 2 years older than me, but we have 4 years of school between us. To speak up and be proud of yourself. Not only to be loved by others, but to be loved by yourself.
I've been talking with and am very close friends with a guy who is 3 or 4 years older than me. Can you imagine this huge gap in our worlds on raising our kids? It just isn't acceptable for most people. I don't know about canada but even with out sex, in the U. I suppose you could dance around the issue of helping your friend get back together with him for a while, and put it off, until he gets back. More then likely she will eventually be 18 soon anyway, but just tread carefully. You will always have to work through problems. My 19 and a half year old son is dating a 15 and a half year old girl.